Several times my daughter had telephoned to say,
"Mother, you must come see the daffodils before they are over." I
wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. "I
will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third
call.
Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had
promised, and so I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house and
hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, "Forget the daffodils,
Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in
the world except you and these children that I want to see bad enough to drive
another inch!" My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this
all the time, Mother." "Well, you won't get me back on the road until
it clears, and then I'm heading for home!" I assured her. "I was
hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car." "How far
will we have to drive?" "Just a few blocks," Carolyn said.
"I'll drive. I'm used to this."
After several minutes, I had to ask, "Where
are we going? This isn't the way to the garage!" "We're going to my
garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the daffodils."
"Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around." "It's
all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this
experience."
After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small
gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a
hand-lettered sign that read, "Daffodil Garden." We got out of the car
and each took a child's hand. I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, we turned
a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most
glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and
poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes.
The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling
patterns: great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon
pink, saffron, and butter yellow. Each different colored variety was planted as
a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique
hue. There were five acres of flowers. "But who has done this?" I
asked Carolyn. "It's just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She
lives on the property. That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well kept
A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We
walked up to the house.
On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers
to the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the headline. The first
answer was a simple one: "50,000 bulbs," it read. The second answer
was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and very little
brain." The third answer was, "Began in 1958." There it was, The
Daffodil Principle.
For me, that moment was a life-changing
experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty
years before, had begun one bulb at a time--to bring her vision of beauty and
joy to an obscure mountain top. Still, just planting one bulb at a time, year
after year, had changed the world. This unknown woman had forever changed the
world in which she lived. She had created something of ineffable magnificence,
beauty, and inspiration.
The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of
the greatest principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our
goals and desires one step at a time--often just one baby step at a time-and
learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we
multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we, too,
will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.
"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted
to Carolyn. "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful
goal thirty-five or forty years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a
time' through all those years. Just think what I might have been able to
achieve!"
My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct
way. "Start tomorrow," she said.
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