Does
knowing one's true type really matter?
It really doesn't.
In fact, it
may not make any difference at all.
I've heard
it said that Margaret Wheatley claimed her type is DKDC -- which stands for
"Don't Know Don't Care." And she hasn't been struck by
lightning. ...Yet.
Then there
are people who use psychological type as if it were a magazine horoscope, a tea leaf reading,
or a parlor game. So it's fun, ya know? And that's enough.
You can be
as superficial as you like with this theory.
Or as deep.
Some people
think the MBTI is the theory. They will say, "What's your MBTI?"
as if they're one and the same. They've missed the boat, but they don't
know. And they may not care.
Internet
surfers often take the freebie online junk tests and share their results with their friends as
they play a Type-lite version of "Truth or Dare." They boast how they "have no
S," or they're a "strong F" or insist they're two types or an
"X." Sure, okay. That can be silly fun, even if they're
making every type mistake in the book.
Some people
use their newfound knowledge of type as "a big stick," taking angry
whacks at everyone around them. "Aha! I can't stand S's!"
they say. Or -- "That's the problem! My mother is a
T!" Suddenly, Type becomes a tool to persecute those who have injured
them. These folks overlook investigating their own eye in favor of
finding fault with the motes in others' eyes.
Then there
are the people who hungrily read all the available descriptions of their type,
weep briefly with the joy of understanding, and then get back to "real
life." It was a momentary cathartic diversion, soon forgotten.
It's all
too easy for type to get reduced to this four-letter "brand" that
people stick on themselves and forget about. It's just a meaningless label
they don't even understand, nothing more.
Freud said: "The trouble with most people's self-analysis
is it stops too soon. They are too easily satisfied."
I guess
the question you can ask yourself is whether you are "easily
satisfied." Are you?
If you are,
then knowing your Type won't really matter.
But if you
are not easily satisfied and hunger to learn more about yourself, you can
use Type to find many of
the answers you seek -- sometimes to questions you didn't know you had!
It'll take a little more effort is all.
If you're
in the mood to delve deep and want to know more, I've tried to provide useful
information on this website for doing so. The only thing is, you have to
put up with me as you wander around.
So put your
thinking cap on! And enjoy your
Type journey -- whether 'tis a lark, or a quest for the Holy Grail.
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