What
They
Naturally Bring to a Team
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Have a
talent for developing and guiding people; their relationships are about
supporting human potential
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Bring a
quiet enthusiasm and industry to projects that are part of their vision
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Organized,
with a strong sense of purpose
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Loyal
to both people and organizations
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Actively
listen and give their full attention to others
Their
Teamwork Style is To
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Lead
quietly and by example in a predictable, orderly, and very personal way
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Use
insight and interpersonal warmth to organize, counsel, inspire, and teach
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Inspire
others with a positive, enthusiastic approach
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Approach
problems from a global perspective
Potential Blind Spots for INFJs
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Can be
seen as distant by others as they try to manage their own emotions
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May
lose sight of their own needs and personal identity, leading to eventual
burnout
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Might
focus on developing people to such an extent that they lose a sense of
perspective
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May
have difficulty separating their personal values from the impersonal
To Help
INFJs Succeed
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Try to
create an open, honest, and sincere relationship with them
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Provide
a work environment that focuses on people and their needs, with an identity
and purpose that goes beyond everyday routine
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Give
them positive feedback
How
INFJs Build Relationships
For
them, team relationships are about supporting human potential. They often show a
talent for developing and guiding people, so putting them in a coaching role on
the team benefits all. It is often painful, however, when they offer insights or
advice and teammates choose not to take it. Others may see them as either more
outgoing or more critical than they are. They often come to team relationships
with pre-established expectations but are willing to change if met with new
information or new teammates. They quickly pick up on insincerity and withdraw
if someone on the team is superficial or obviously doesn’t care.
How
INFJs Deal with Conflict
They
typically don’t like conflict but won’t avoid it if it can improve
relationships or lead to growth. Therefore, they are likely catalysts for airing
team issues within the group. When conflict occurs, they first withdraw to sort
it out, then seek to have a conversation where the conflict can be addressed.
They realize the importance of keeping their emotions in check and not saying
things that can damage relationships.
To
Forge Better Relationships with INFJs…
Provide
a team environment that focuses on people and their needs. Try to create an
open, honest, and sincere relationship with them and help them create that kind
of relationship with others on the team. Give them genuine, meaningful feedback,
which does not always have to be positive, to let them know you are aware of
their contributions. Most of all, frame the work of the team as having a
meaningful purpose that goes beyond everyday routine.
How
INFJs Approach Doing Work
They
have a tendency to spend a fair amount of up-front reflection time to mentally
get a sense of where the project and the team are going so will likely disengage
from the group momentarily. They want a course of action or reference points to
help team members know when they are on track. They see the value in defining
roles so tasks can get done and matching the right team members with the tasks
to accomplish the vision. Once underway, they are quite likely to be very time
and task focused unless the team gets derailed or people clearly need attending
to in order to be productive.
How
INFJs Make Decisions
They
tend to make decisions rather quickly if new information matches the vision. If
it doesn’t, they will want time to integrate the information into their vision
and adjust the vision or reject the information. They might be prone to inaction
when they get overwhelmed with the physical realities of a situation or when
they have no idea of what the next step should be.
How
INFJs Respond to Change
When
a change doesn’t match their vision of what is going to happen, they must
trust that others are really looking out for the good of the people. This will
help them adjust their vision, especially if accompanied by a good argument with
a strong rationale and with new insights and evidence.
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As a
Compassionate Visionary [INFJ] team member, I
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Am warm
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Am
actively supportive
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Take on
and complete more than my share of duties
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Am
careful to validate and appreciate others
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Have
difficulty accepting critical feedback presented logically
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Struggle
to not react strongly if others seem uncaring or cold
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Am
accommodating and positive
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Do not
work well in an environment of personal conflict
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See
situations from multiple perspectives
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Am good
at linking people and finding common ground
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Often
play the role of moderator or conciliator
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Larry
Demarest writes about INFJs:
Interaction Though
they themselves are comfortable working alone, involving others and creating
empowering environments is important to INFJs. They naturally facilitate
and build consensus, create cohesion, and work cooperatively. They are
good at working on teams (though too much interaction can be fatiguing).
Despite their general responsiveness to people, INFJs can become single-minded
and inflexible about how things ought to be. They can also be private and
difficult to get to know.
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In a team
environment, the INFJ can contribute by:
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observing
and understanding the team dynamics, and encouraging the team to recognise
them and take appropriate action
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listening
carefully to various viewpoints, and being able to identify potential areas
of agreement to be used as a basis to move forward
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being
trustworthy, meeting commitments to a consistent standard
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contributing
creative ideas, particularly those involving people
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bringing
the team to make decisions about important issues
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promoting
harmony and co-operation
The
potential ways in which an INFJ can irritate others include:
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not
including others in the INFJ's process of developing ideas and vision
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not
giving criticism or expressing disagreement when it is appropriate
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ignoring
current reality in pursuit of insight and meaning - perhaps overlooking some
tasks that need to be done
-
making
errors of fact
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not
promoting their ideas in the group
-
wanting
to pursue ideas without fully thinking through the consequences in, say,
cost terms
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