Snapshot
The INFJ
theme is foresight. They use their insights to deal with complexity in
issues and people, often with a strong sense of "knowing" before
others know themselves. Their talents lie in developing and guiding
people. They trust their inspirations and visions, using them to help
others. They thrive on helping others resolve deep personal and ethical
dilemmas. Private and complex, they bring a quiet enthusiasm and industry
to projects that are part of their vision.
Foreseer
Developer - INFJ
What’s
it like to be you?
The quest for more knowledge, the meaning of life, the philosophical
questions—my mind is always occupied, and what’s exciting is when I get
to follow through with an insight and do something. I am an abstract future
thinker, looking at things from different perspectives. I’m about the
relationships and possibilities and enjoy anything with deeper meaning that
leaves me wondering, with more questions to ask and things to untangle.
Connecting for me means being able to intuitively ask questions of people to
get them to go deeper into the things they are talking about.
Inspiring
others, helping them find their purpose or meaning, being a different kind
of leader from what’s traditional—that’s really gratifying. I just do
that naturally. The challenge is opening up people’s minds to have their
own original thoughts. I’m a listener and guide.
I think
I am a mystery to people. They never really understand me and part of me
enjoys that. More often though, I long to be understood.
I tend
to approach my day with a structured way of getting things accomplished.
People see me as organized, thorough, and easy to get along with, pulling my
own weight and eager to help out when called upon. But I’m not as outgoing
or as critical as I may sometimes appear. I need a balance between people
contact and working on creative projects and will break away from
interactions when I get tired out. If I don’t have some long-term goals,
then what’s the point?
I tend
to intuitively read people very quickly, but I have to be cautious not to
make assumptions. I’m an observer. I get a feeling when people are
interesting, and I watch from a distance, make some assessments about the
situation, and then approach them and engage in conversation. I put a little
bit out and a little more and see how that goes. Do I trust and like them,
are they who they say? I have a few deep friendships. A friendship comes
best when it is worked to develop that investment. I quickly pick up on
sincerity and withdraw if the person is superficial or obviously doesn’t
care. When I see people who abuse their power or won’t stand behind what
they say, that ticks me off. It’s about integrity. I feel other people’s
feelings, and taking on that burden can make me too intense and serious,
where I can’t be spontaneous and fun loving.
I like
whatever gets us to think beyond the box, where people can function better
because they are not afraid to say things they really feel. I have a lot of
imagination and by and large can amuse myself. I love independent projects
and reading and writing. I do my best thinking alone, and I like getting out
in nature, being alone to go inside and center myself. I have always been
drawn to the spiritual. Everywhere, I see life in symbols. Symbols give me
focus. Sometimes the connections and perceptions in my mind are so abstract
there are no words to explain. A lot of times I just know something and can’t
explain it—a premonition that’s hard to articulate. If it’s strong I
usually say something or explore where it’s coming from, but I will keep
it to myself if people don’t seem to understand. Informed decisions
require lots of information and looking at a situation from as many
different points of view as possible. I find it amusing, the absurdity in
everyday situations.
It is
painful when there is conflict or when I offer advice and someone chooses
not to take it. For me, I have to prepare myself for what is going to happen
so I can either support people in a positive way or get away and wait out
the inevitable heavy duty stuff before returning to fix things. How will it
impact me and the people in my life? Will it put me in another place or
another level where I can grow more? Not knowing the right thing to say and
do is stressful.
Everything
revolves around growth. Caring is about the ability to help others grow.
What I bring is caring about people, not things. If we spent more time
trying to understand each other’s point of view, to communicate more
effectively, we would grow. In an honest, open, sincere relationship, I can
accomplish anything. My challenge is to create those kinds of relationships.
I respect most the person who is willing to come forth and be an individual—to
make the world a better place, or make a difference in a person’s life,
where we reach each other’s hearts.
.....Read
more....
Reprinted with
permission. (Copyright© 1999) Linda V. Berens and Dario Nardi. The 16
Personality Types: Descriptions for Self-Discovery (Telos Publications.
Huntington Beach, Calif., 1999). Reproduction.
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The
Sandra Hirsh Description
Last time I
looked, the Hirsh description was posted here.
The
Charles Martin Description
For INFJs
the dominant quality in their lives is their attention to the inner world of
possibilities, ideas, and symbols. Knowing by way of insight is paramount for
them, and they often manifest a deep concern for people and relationships as
well. INFJs often have deep interests in creative expressions as well as issues
of spirituality and human development. While their energy and attention are
naturally drawn to the inner world of ideas and insights, what people often
first encounter with INFJs is their drive for closure and for the application of
their ideas to people’s concerns.
The
Roger Pearman Description
INFJs seek
meaning and connection in ideas, relationships, and material possessions.
Want to understand what motivates people and are insightful about others.
Conscientious and committed to their firm values. Develop a clear vision
about how best to serve the common good. Organized and decisive in
implementing their vision.
From the
Guardians of the MBTI
Their brief
description is here.
From
CAPT
Their brief
description is here.
The
"Live Your Calling" description
For INFJs...
the dominant quality in their lives is their attention to the inner world of
possibilities, ideas, and symbols. Knowing by way of insight is paramount for
them, and they often manifest a deep concern for people and relationships as
well. INFJs often have deep interests in creative expression as well as issues
of spirituality and human development. Although their energy and attention are
naturally drawn to the inner world of ideas and insights, what people first
encounter with INFJs is likely to be their drive for closure and for application
of their ideas to people's concerns.
INFJs are
most likely to find interesting and satisfying those careers that make use of
their depth of concentration, grasp of abilities, warmth and empathy, and
ability to organize. INFJs are often found in careers where creativity and
facilitating human development are primary activities. Their orientation to
people, confidence in their insights into the nature of things and people, and
fertile imagination often attract them to careers where they can draw out the
possibilities in others. These same qualities can also lead to exceptional
empathic abilities.
The
Keirsey Description
Last time I
looked, it was posted here.
(My problem with this description is that Dr. Keirsey's wife's preferences are
for INFJ, so this is a particularly "loving" description. I
dislike his emphasis on rarity and ESP, because these mentions attract people
for all the wrong reasons, as does the part about feeling misunderstood.
With its vagueness, this description tends to be a magnet for INFPs, and it
doesn't emphasize the directing/informing
distinction found elsewhere in Keirsey's work.)
16Types
University "Short Version":
FORESEER
DEVELOPER - INFJ
Personal growth. Sustain the vision. Honoring the gifts of others. Taking a
creative approach to life. Talent for foreseeing. Exploring issues. Bridge
differences and connect people. Practical problem solving. Live with a sense of
purpose. Living an idealistic life often presents them with a great deal of
stress and a need to withdraw.
From Understanding
Your MBTI Step II Results:
INFJs
tend to
-
be
quietly forceful, intense and conscientious
-
be
concerned for others
-
work
with perseverance and originality
-
be
motivated by a larger purpose or mission they want to accomplish
-
be
respected for their clear convictions regarding how to serve the common
good
Note:
All descriptions are not created equal! I have not included
descriptions I find fault with or that I feel have serious drawbacks.
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