Here are some resources I have found extremely beneficial. I highly recommend them all to other INFJs:

• Fierce Conversations: Achieving Success at Work & in Life, One Conversation at a Time (highly recommended)

• Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High

• Leadership and Self Deception: Getting Out of the Box

• Take Time for Your Life

• We : Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love

• First, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do Differently

• Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life

• Nonviolent Communication : A Language of Compassion

I think coaching is a phenomenal resource!  I am enjoying using psychological type as a developmental model, and I would love to support you.  Here are some coaching resources:

• my own website, www.TypeInsights.com

• a college paper one of my clients wrote describing our work together, which describes how coaching works

• a free informational coaching call from my school, CTI

• a resource for finding a Co-Active Coach™

• more to come

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